Traditionally, the service of baptism has served this purpose. But the Church of England recognises that we are all at different points in a lifelong journey of discovery of God's love. Sometimes a different service to mark the birth of a baby may be more appropriate. We do not want to require you to make promises which you are not comfortable with.
This page seeks to help you make an informed decision about the right way ahead for you and your child
Baptism? Or Thanksgiving Service?
Most enquiries following the birth of a baby about a baptism (or christening-
This does not have to be an either/or choice. some families choose to have a Thanksgiving For the Gift of a Child early in their child's life and bring the child for baptism later. This might be when the child has requested it, and will remember this momentous occasion. Or it might be when they as parents feel more able to make the promises being expected of them. Their faith has grown with the years.
Along with the whole congregation at St Mary's, we look forward to meeting you and hope that you will feel very much at home in God's Church.
If you have any questions, or would like to explore other support we can offer you as you seek to instil Christian faith in your children, Amanda Barraclough, the Rector, would be happy to help.
Tel: 01302 854836
By now, you will have had a chance to look at our leaflet "Thinking about baptism". We hope that has helped your thinking towards this special day, as your child is welcomed into the family of the Church.
If you have decided that Baptism is an appropriate path for you, this is information you need.
you and the godparents:
Christians describe baptism as a sacrament-
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What will I be asked to promise during the service?
This is a huge commitment.
Please think carefully about what you are promising because it is important that promises spoken in God's presence are made with integrity.
Some parents realise they need to know more about the faith they are pledging to instil in their child. It is more important than ever that this happens in the home. School life is more likely to educate a child about faith rather than instil faith within them. This is the responsibility of the home and family more fully than it has been for many generations. Most young parents have little experience of seeing this modelled at home in their own childhoods, and are unsure how to help their children most effectively.
From time to time St. Mary's will offer short courses to support you in this. Please contact Amanda for more information.
The arrival of a new member of the family can turn your world upside-
What values do you want your child to be taught?
For some it is a time to think about issues of faith and values for living. Maybe reading an account of the life of Jesus raises some questions about the values and vision of this remarkable person. We hope that you will maintain contact with the church as you explore his claims. We offer a short course at various times through the year where people who want to know more can gather and discuss what Christian faith might mean for life in today's world. It assumes no previous knowledge and is held in a relaxed and informal environment.
Contact Amanda if you want to know more.
Getting ready for the big day
Welcomes a child into God's family
Involves promises about raising a child with Christian faith
Is a public celebration-
Involves symbols of water, oil, and light set apart for a sacred purpose
Welcomes a child into your family
Involves promises to support the family with love
Is a private celebration-
Asks God's blessing on you as you as raise your child
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